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disappointment..

There are a load of references in novels and the like to how disappointment is worse than anger; how it makes people feel worse about what they have done and all that.

Right now I'm inclined to agree. I just snuck home for a weekend. And as people have asked me how things are I'm aware of how disappointed I feel. Disappointed is a difficult one to deal with. I'm not sure its dissipated with forgiveness in the same way that anger is. Its not a very active emotion.. it just sits on you.

It doesn't inspire, or instill hope. It just drains. And I don't like being drained.

blah blah blah...

This too will pass.

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Anonymous said…
Yes...I agree...I think I'd have blugh blugh blugh instead of blah blah blah.

Love Jo
12:10 pm
Anonymous said…
I totally agree. Disappointment is much more difficult to live with that something more active you can tangibly work through... xc
12:39 pm
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